Malachi 3:3 says: "He will sit as a refiner and purifier of silver."
This verse puzzled some women in a Bible study and they wondered what this statement meant about the character and nature of God.
One of the women offered to find out the process of refining silver and get back to the group at their next Bible Study.
That week, the woman called a silversmith and made an appointment to watchhim at work. She didn't mention anything about the reason for her interest beyond her curiosity about the process of refining silver.
As she watched the silversmith, he held a piece of silver over the fire and let it heat up. He explained that in refining silver, one needed to hold the silver in the middle of the fire where the flames were hottest as to burn away all the impurities.
The woman thought about God holding us in such a hot spot; then she thought again about the verse that says:"He sits as a refiner and purifier of silver." She asked the silversmith if it was true that he had to sit there in front of the fire the whole time the silver was being refined. The man answered that yes, he not only had to sit there holding the silver, but he had to keep his eyes on the silver the entire time it was in the fire. If the silver was left a moment too long in the flames, it would be destroyed.
The woman was silent for a moment. Then she asked the silversmith, "How do you know when the silver is fully refined?"
He smiled at her and answered, "Oh, that's easy -- when I see my image in it"
If today you are feeling the heat of the fire, remember that God has his eye on you and will keep watching you until He sees His image in you.
Sunday, March 30, 2008
Amazing Refiner
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There's No Place Like Home!
There were no weekend activities at the campground this weekend, so we decided to come home Sat. evening. We got everything straightened up and packed, and did a few last minute errands. I went back to The Children's Place, and bought 2 more pair of flip flops for Bri, 2 pair of sunglasses (her insistance!)and 2 pair of camo fleece mittens for Shawn. They match the fleece jacket and hat I bought previously. They were only 49 cents so I bought both pairs they had. Elton went to the Amish store that has recently opened up, and bought some Horseradish cheese- we had it the last time we were in Lancaster and loved it. We got home about 9:30- surprisingly I was energized and unpacked and put away all of our stuff, did 2 loads of laundry. It was sooo nice to be back in our King size pillowtop, after our crappy trailer mattress! :0) This morning I finished the rest of the laundry and cleaned out Shawn and Brianna's closets. I have a ton of stuff to take to the Goodwill tomorrow. It felt really good to declutter and "improve my Chi"! The girls and I went to Dad and Janet's to visit for a little while, they were tiling around the new tub- I liked the new tile much more than I expected to- I wouldn't call it black, I would consider it more of a charcoal. I think it will be really pretty. Then we went to Bobby and Tracy's to pick up Chris, he had spent the weekend there, and was helping Bobby rebuild an engine. It was good to see him! I had intended to come home and work on Bri's wallpaper, but I'm tired. I'll work on it tomorrow... Hopefully I'll get it knocked out, or at least mostly- I'm ready to start on Shawn's mural. Kathy should have my shower invitations done Monday or Tuesday- I'm anxious to see the finished product.
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Saturday, March 29, 2008
VA Aquarium
Yesterday we decided to go to the VA Aquarium- another first for us. It was a nice facility, in definite need of some cosmetic improvement inside, but they were working on it. We spent several hours and probably didn't even see half of the aquarium. We didn't venture out onto the nature trail or over to the Salt Marsh Aquarium. The girls loved it, Katherine delights me in the way she wants to read the signs, and experiment with the hands on demonstrations. She is such a smart cookie! :0) They didn't have too much in the way of fish, and the jellyfish exhibit was closed. However; the shark tank was pretty nice. We happened to be there for feeding time, so we stuck around and listened to the presentation and watched the show. Disappointingly, the sharks are individually fed from overhead scaffolding, a fish is attacked to a piece of PVC pipe and lowered into the water in front if the desired shark. The portions were surprisingly small, and I must say that I was hoping for a bloody feeding frenzy- it would have been much more exciting! They have an IMAX theatre onsite. This is the second time that we have seen an IMAX show- they are really impressive! At the Exploris museum in Raleigh we watched something about the Deep Sea- I don't remember the exact title... Yesterday we saw "Dolphins and Whales." They were also offering showings on Dinosaurs and Underwater Monsters. Since we had the girls with us it wasn't hard to make up our minds on what to see! Brianna is obsessed with Shamu! She was so cute during the movie, she kept reaching out and trying to touch the animals! It was adorable, when she couldn't touch them she would take off her 3D glasses and try to figure out what was going on! She must have done it 10 times- it was hilarious. Wish we had got it on video! Again- traffic was a nightmare! There was a 8 mile backup at the tunnel on our way back to the campground! We avoided it entirely, but I'm not sure how far out of the way we had to go to do so. I'm quite impressed with my husbands internal GPS- I would probably still be sitting in the traffic jam. Elton's like" We'll take such and such to this town, and then we'll get on whatever until we get here, and then we can jump onto this highway." It's so nice that he can do that, but I found myself looking at him wondering "WHY is he telling me this? I certainly won't remember... I could care less how we get there as long as we get there!" Guess its a guy thing... I think I would really like GPS. I may have him look into it. Some of us would really benefit from it- some of us who get lost 2 miles from home! LOL!
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Thursday, March 27, 2008
A Day at the Zoo
Today we went to the Virginia Zoo in Norfolk. It's a nice place, but I guess we are just spoiled after the NC Zoo- which is FAR superior. Brianna was so geeked up about seeing the tigers, and they had one- which was sleeping... She loved the spider monkeys though- they had a really nice set up for those, and they were actually interacting with her through the glass. Elton and I really liked the giraffes, I don't think I've ever been that close to one before- they really are beautiful. Katherine had the most fun chasing after the peacocks (a game Brianna started- she loves to chase birds and squirrels! ;0) ) and playing on the huge rope spider web they had set up in the farmyard area. The drive to Norfolk wasn't that bad- 40 miles tops, but we got stuck in traffic jams @ the Hampton tunnel both coming and going :0( I think we'll stick with the NC Zoo from now on, even though Asheboro is about 2 1/2 hours from our house. Maybe we'll be able to go this fall, when the weather is nice (Asheboro is soooo hilly- spring and fall destination only!) It was a nice change of pace though, we've done Busch Gardens the past 2 days. The weather would be perfect for Virginia Beach, but we'll save that outing for when Chris is with us in a couple of weeks for Spring Break. Somehow I don't think he minds missing the Zoo! Another big outing and no accidents- way to go BriBri! I think she's really got the hang of this potty thing- thank God! I don't want 2 in diapers! LOL!
We watched "Into the Wild" last night. It was kind of long, but a really interesting story nonetheless. I think I will read it and see how the book compares to the movie. Movies have a tendency to overromantisize things, and from what I read on the internet this morning, he wasn't nearly as prepared as they portrayed him to be...
We are currently watching Two Brothers- about 2 tiger cubs who are seperated and later reunited- SNOOZER! Even Katherine appears to have lost interest... Bri is sleeping, and has been since the ride home from the zoo- hopefully will remain that way until tomorrow morning! Poor thing- she has played hard today!
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Wednesday, March 26, 2008
Randy Whitley 6/13/75-3/26/00
Do not stand at my grave and weepI am not there; I do not sleep.I am a thousand winds that blow,I am the diamond glints on snow,I am the sun on ripened grain,I am the gentle autumn rain.When you awaken in the morning's hushI am the swift uplifting rush Of quiet birds in circling flight. I am the soft starlight at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry, I am not there; I did not die.
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Busch Gardens- Rest for the Weary
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Monday, March 24, 2008
Vacation Extended AGAIN!
Well I woke up this morning and wondered "Why am I going home???" I'd be bored most of the week- Chris has school, hockey, and football practice starts this week- I'd get to see him for about 20 minutes a day and then he'd pass out... It would just be Bri and me 24/7. So I called my Dad who had already offered to meet us 1/2 way pick him up and keep him the rest of this week. Grandpa and Nana to the rescue! Elton left about an hour ago to meet them. Katie and I are just chillin'. Unfortunatly Bri is asleep (I'll be regretting this later!) but right now we're enjoying the peace and quiet. Probably wake her up in a few minutes and take the girls to the pool. Need to do some laundry too since I wasn't planning on staying this long... Will probably go to Busch Gardens tomorrow, had planned on going today, but by the time we all got showered and fed this morning, and went to the Pottery (Chris wanted to go to the knife store) none of us were really feeling Busch Gardens. Katherine and I bought some really cute cosmetic bags there- hers is black and pink and mine is pink and green. I'm almost thinking hers might be cuter... but I do LOVE pink and green. I also got 2 smaller bags that match. They were all 40% off. The people who worked there were so nice! I saw a bag that I would have LOVED for a diaper bag, but since we are having a boy- pink and green probably wouldn't be the best choice! LOL! The lady offered to order it for me in brown and blue. I'm very excited and can't wait to see it. I didn't even make it to Country Treasures- one of my alltime favorite stores! Figured that I had already spent enough money and since Elton was waiting in the car for the kids and I... (THAT is my typical shopping husband!) Hopefully I'll have some great new pics to post tomorrow...
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Sunday, March 23, 2008
Extended Vacation...
Couldn't bring myself to go home today... Having such a nice time. I don't want to leave Elton and Katherine here- I miss them so much when they are not home! It will be o.k. if Chris misses 1 day of school. Lazy day today- only a couple of activites: coloring fun and family movie. Elton took the kids to the General Store and the Trading Post in Williamsburg so I could take an uninterrupted nap. These late nights are really taking their toll- I've never been able to sleep in- I'm up with the sun. I appreciate the quiet mornings- I had about 3 hours before anyone was up and about this morning. But by afternoon I was dragging... Better stock up on my naps now- there won't be any this week with only Brianna and I at home! Spent a couple of hours at the pool this evening. Washed some clothes for Elton and Katherine- sneaky suspicion that if I don't do it, it won't get done! ;0) There are some things that Daddy just doesn't do! Although I must admit, he has been exceptionally good with childcare and cooking lately. I think he knows that I am super tired... I'm taking my prenatals, but think I will make it a point to add some more iron to my diet. Elton cooked chicken on the grill today, rice a roni, corn on the cob, and crescent rolls. I could get used to this!
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Busy Bunnies!
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Friday, March 21, 2008
Another Delightful Day @ Outdoor World!
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Kitchen Remodel
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Thursday, March 20, 2008
Williamsburg Va!
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Wednesday, March 19, 2008
My 1st Official Blog
I have been weighing the pro's and con's of blogging for quite awhile now. On one hand it never seems like there are enough hours in the day to accomplish half of the things I intend to, on the other hand, I think it would be somewhat cathartic. I imagine it will be nice to look back on previous posts and see what life was like at a certain point in time. My kids are growing up so fast, Chris is 15 (gasp!), Katherine 10, Brianna 3, and Shawn -56 days. Perhaps this will be an easier way to record their lives than their oft neglected Baby Books!
I guess I will start with me... I'm 31, married to my soul mate/best friend. We have been blessed with (almost) 4 wonderful children. I think we must have a baby addiction! Everytime one of our children stops being a baby we have another one. I'm currently 8 months pregnant with our fourth (and last) child. It's bittersweet. Our family will be complete. 2 boys (my husband Elton refers to them as our "Bookends") and 2 girls. Each of our children have such unique distinctive personalitys- I can't wait to meet Shawn- I hope he's an easygoing baby! My primary aspiration in life is to be the best wife/mother I can be. Some days it feels like I am failing miserably, but other days I look at my children, full of pride, and think that I'm not doing too bad! I recieved my Batchelors degree in Biology and am currently working on my Master's of Library Science online. I'm not very far along in the program but am enjoying it thus far.
My husband Elton is my rock. He keeps me grounded. Not to say that he's perfect- but I wouldn't trade him! He works in pharmaceuticals and is currently working on his Master's of Business Administration. He is very ambitious and driven. We have many of the same goals and values. God truly blessed me when he brought him to me.
Chris is a typical teenage boy, one minute he is a monster, the next an angel. I think he gets his moodswings from me! Out of all of our children he is the one who reminds me the most of myself. His tastes and interests change on a whim, I guess he is just trying to find out who he is, and what his path in life will be.
Katherine is such a sweet quiet child- too nice at times. She has a lot of her fathers qualities about her, and a lot of my mother. I hope she has also inherited their inner strength. I think she has...
Brianna- I think this one will be a handful! I dread her teenage years! She is VERY mischevious, but also very loving. She has such a delightful personality, it's hard to stay mad at her for very long.
Enough background information. Tomorrow as soon as Chris gets out of school we will go to Williamsburg- our "home away from home". Elton and Katherine have been there since Sunday and I can't wait to see them. It's been a long 4 days. Busch Gardens will be open and we are looking forward to spending Easter at the campground. I truly love it there! They have so many great activities for the kids, I'm sure I will have plenty to blog about and hopefully some great pictures to post.
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